Love is a beautiful thing, if not the most beautiful feeling in the world, the butterflies in the belly, the sunlight in the eyes, the fire in the bones, the warmth on the lips, the joy in the heart, all together make love amazingly heart warming.
Yet there is the elephant in the room that more often than not we are likely to trivialize or all together overlook, it is what I call “health compatibility”.
When love is on the brain and in the heart so many important facts can be easily forgotten or relegated to the background whereas they should be at the fore front of our hearts and minds.
For instance, the genotype compatibility, rhesus compatibility and even mental compatibility are way too important to be neglected!
All together the all encompassing question should be “how much do you know about your partner’s health”? Do you even know anything about his/her health status? beyond her dress size, his shoe size, her favorite snack, his favorite meal, do you know the things that could potentially and ultimately hurt your relationship in the long run?
Have you ever been to the hospital with your spouse for a check up?
Have you ever wondered why he always has a cold?
Have you even bothered to find out why she always has a head ache?
That bottle of herbal concortion on his dinning table have you asked what it is for?
I have seen long standing relationships fall apart on the basis of health incompatibilities, I have seen two persons truly in love lose all that they have shared because their attention was on everything but how compatible their health conditions were,
So before you fall helplessly in love or at least while you’re at it, be sure to know how healthy or other wise your partner is, ignorance is NOT always bliss!