Nigerian men treat their wives as second in command, they expect their women to be there for them, answer when they call and they always want to make the final decisions. Basically to be “the man” and be in charge.
Men in Nigeria believe that a woman is responsible if she is good with domestic works while the ones with very little knowledge and domestic know-how are considered irresponsible. A Nigerian boy is expected to leave his father’s house at most by the age of 30, fend for himself and build his own home. If he fails to do so, he would be regarded as an irresponsible man in his own community; Nigerian men are expected to be independent by thirty at most.
A Nigerian man is very hard-working compared to his counterparts in Diasporea because
The Nigerian man is a natural hustler, they go out in the morning and come back in the evening, they don’t usually get fed up with wealth acquisition, that is the one thing American women seem to like so much about Nigerian men, – That they take responsibility and make sure their family as well as their woman is well taken care of.
One said “I love the way African men love their children it is the most beautiful thing I have ever seen, but I can see the boys are more spoiled, that is the truth.
If you do a search on the internet about “Nigerian men” you would come across very few positive comments and loads of negative stuff about Men from Nigeria, like they are domineering, you hear things like “Nigerian guys are naturally dishonest!,” you will hear the good and you will also hear the bad things about men from western African. Well, I guess that comes with life
Most of the negative things you hear about Nigerian/black men are from white/American women who tell stories of how they got their heart broken and how ruthless heartless they find Nigerian men. I am a Nigerian lady and I don’t care whether you are white, black or even pink. As long as you have a good heart, that’s what matters. However, one of my friends think otherwise. She says she can never marry a Nigerian man as she’ll go any length to marry any other man from another Nationality. But what do you expect? She has had series of heartbreaks and breakdowns just because of bad relationships. To be candid, I think she has just been with the wrong men.
But frankly, you can date and marry a handsome Nigerian guy any day if you are willing and able to be a good wife?